I Love You

These 3 letters are something that everybody likes to hear but to tell u it is not easy to tell to a person u love..i will tell u about my frnd who happened to fall in love with a girl who works along with him..Now my frnd who is a real nice, honest, a person who can never backbite( such species have become very rare in this world now :) ) he has never been too close to a girl all thru his life although had some crushes in school and college life which he never expressed and the feelings died( as expected :) ) This guy is a very cheerful person and always keeps smiling,jst like me :D He has been in touch with this girl for around 2-3 months and they have been talking for long hours together almost everyday..The girl is beautiful and had many other frnds also.. now my friends is not GOD and he feels bad when she get calls from other frnds ( on new year day she got 20 calls :) when they were together ) there was some tension between them due to this but again its got back to normal..

Sometime we become too possessive about something and then the problem starts..i mean its ok yaar.. the person has her own frnd circle and what do u expect from a beautiful girl working in a mnc tht u will be her only frnd...its natural tht she will be having a lot of guy frnds..

Chalo ab kahani aage badhate hai... one day he calls me up and tell me everything about how is unable to focus on his work, how he always thinks about the girl, How he has become a serious person from the usual cheerful one..Infact now he is not able to behave normal with her..He asked me what to do ???

I said him jst tell her about the feelings u r having for her ..its always good in a relationship to express ur genuine felings to the person concerned...atleast this is what i have been doing off late...

then starts the series of questions some of them are really funny :)
have u ever done this?? how should i tell ?? should i directly tell " I love U" ??
how i do know her response?? Should i tell her in the morning or evening ? what will she think about me after i tell ?? I have to work with her on the project for quite a long..will it not hamper our relationship?? tell me exactly how u tell.. i will do the same way :) ??? and many many more..i could i now very well understand why the telecom companies are making Huge profits :D

and i have tried to answer each and every question in a very convincing way and he is like ok i will tell it now..should i :) and finally he says i m going to tell her today for sure and u know this has been happening for last 7 days :P and its not tht he is not making effort.. infact he was telling me tht he asked her to come to the top of the office building( a place they regularly visit) but cud not tell...
maine bola kyu nahin bol pa raha hai ??? to bola phatt jati hai yaar :))

Why is it so difficult to tell jst the 3 words ??

what i can make out is tht the fear of response.. we have a fear tht it will break the good relationship with the person( Ask me it never will )..or may be the fear of failure..fear of neglect from the person u love so much.. not able to talk and see the person u feel so good to be with..

u know i have got a way out of all this fears.. jst detach urself from the result and have no expectations..i have been the proponet of the philosophy " whetever GOD does there is sth good behind it " and this has proved many a times in my life.. as i see over the years there were many things in my life which on the spur of the moment i hated and felt sad about but eventually whatever happend it actually was good for me always..u might have heard the story of king who has his thumb cut..tht story will actually make the philosphy more acceptable.. i know its not easy and the pain will be thr for sure but it will relieve u quite a bit when the sense of Gratitude towards GOD for all the good tht he has done to us comes in us..I always feel tht i have been very lucky all thru my life.. i have the best mother i can ever imagine, sweet little brother, great friends and i have got a lot of love from them and i have given them in multiple of what i got too...so what if i dont get love from a girl whom i hardly know for around 2-3 months..i really feel sad about people who betray their parents for a girl whom they have hardly known for some days..
i cud the amount of selfles love in the eyes of my parents and i tell u i can die for it...

Sometimes i have seen tht people flirt and its very natural of our age group ...my only request to all is tht do flirt but do make sure tht the other person does not get hurt and its ur responsibility to make the person comfortable so tht he/she can cope up with the pain of it..

And My last suggestion is tht whenver u feel like saying I lOVE U say it .. i always feel good if sb say this to me with genuine feelings and i bet any sane person will love this 3 leter words told to them...
Lets Make this world a LOVE ly world :D